I love hanging out with my friends.. I really do. Every time we are together I learn something new. I get insight on something old. And I always get a good laugh. Recently while hanging out with some very good friends of mine I learned of a situation one of their friends was having. It left me completely puzzled and more than slightly disgusted. So much so that I let my friend know that I would definitely be adding this to the blog to find out what some of you thought about it. Now with all of my entries this is MY OPINION. But as you know 'My 22 Cents' is for issues that I have a opinion on that may be a tad controversial.... So here goes
My friend has a friend who had a.... homosexual "moment". Now I'm not down for labeling anyone or judging anybody but hey it is what it is. I have homosexual friends. I love them but I don't condone their behavior. This particular gentleman doesn't identify as a homosexual. And my friend, who is his friend, has a different opinion.
Basically this guy was hanging out took some X and before he knew it... Someone was... Ummm.. giving him fellatio. This someone happened to be male. Next thing he knows it has gone past this point to sex. *insert blank face here* After this encounter this young man did meet up with this gentleman again in the company of my friend where she witnessed their affectionate PDA. At the end of the night they went home together to ummm... yea. As far as this guy is concerned he isn't homosexual. He had a moment.. or two.. or three? This guy has even been quoted as saying "Whenever I see him..." and for the sake of my readers I'll just say he becomes aroused. *insert an even blanker face here* He says it was just a moment blames it on the X and he has cut off the 'relationship'.
Now.. a year or two ago I think I'd be a little hung up on the discussion of if he is or isn't homosexual or not. These days I could care less. I hear all kinds of stories and the most I can do is give the blank face because I have no words. Actions speak WAY louder and I can't think of a heterosexual man that would find himself getting fellatio from another man and wouldn't have a problem with that. But hey that's just my opinion. It doesn't happen often but I have been wrong before. My question though... If it was a female would we be so quick to through that label on them? I know girls and guys alike that don't think if a girl kissed another female she would be considered homosexual but two dudes who have known each other since kindergarten can't share a bed....?
Thoughts.....?
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Your homey is in denial.. Tell him to come out of the closet, he's loved no matter what!! He should just open up (no pun intended) about it and just accept it...
ReplyDeleteMen and women don't consider women who kiss another woman to be homosexual but that's another story that I find to be just screwed up. The thing is that women are so sensual and soft that men think its only right for one woman to find another woman appealing, but with men who are supposed to be tough and rugged and masculine that is just.... well gay!!
Being gay is not like a TAZO Tea flavor where you can just order it up to try it for a while. You are or you aren't.
ReplyDeleteAlso why is he hiding in this day and age? I agree with Liryc DENIALLLLL.
lol I honestly feel like either way is a lil funny. I'm sorry Katy Perry your a lil suspect to me. As for dude... *shrug* i really just have the blank face. It doesnt make sense that things went that far. But like i said girl or guy... it still leaves me a little weary... We Women are always screaming about a double standard but I think this particular one has worked in a lot of chicks favor...
ReplyDelete...............................................HHHHMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM. I dont think the X is to blame. Even on my drunkest of drunken nights, my tool had never ended up in or on another dude. HHHHMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM, yea he might need to take the gay dude test. Ask him if he was blind folded and was receiving some life changing mind blowing head, but he could not tell whether it was a man or woman, would he stop?
ReplyDeleteThat should clear it up. But yea...............